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Are Millennials a hook up generation?

Technology has indeed made things simpler and easier for us to get which is why there is not thing that you might want or desire and can’t get from the internet. Sex? Hell, yeah… you can find that as well with numerous dating websites and apps that lets you meet and hook-up with locals.

Welcome to 21st Century- the generation that seems not taboo in keeping a relationship just for sex. So are we the hook up generation ? Indeed. From high schools to colleges and offices- there’s no place where you wouldn’t find couples just hanging out together for some ‘fun time’. The lack of time to handle emotions and the desire to keep away from unnecessary burden of being there always has been cut off by the hook up culture as more and more people are going towards a friend with benefits or discrete hook up bonds. So what was somewhat unknown in Canada more than a decade ago, has now become common knowledge.

Rise of Casual Dating in Canada

Dating is prevalent everywhere but casual dating has always faced some or other conflict from society. Even though it is said to have been an American culture, the hook-up culture had its own rise in Canada in the early 2000s. And after the internet boom and introduction of several dating websites as well as dating apps, casual sex and search for love online became quite the popular point for every other person.

So no matter whether the person is a highs school attending girl, an undergrad boy, a busy businessman or a homemaker woman- anyone and everyone can find casual relationship partner over the Internet. One of the biggest online platforms for finding casual sexual relationship is undoubtedly AdultFriendFinder and as the name suggests, you can find a friend to do those ‘adult things’ with mutual consent. Canada was literally taken by storm by the whole idea of Adult Friend Finder where users could simply visit profiles, pay for guaranteed offers to find a suitable partner and release their urges for sexual satisfaction. However, the other dating sites and apps too started sprouting and online hunt for hook ups increased like never before.

Crossing the boundaries

Come the booming online dating industry on the rise, several dating apps and service websites were launched that provided free or premium services. Tinder is one of the most popular free casual sex and dating service in Canada at the moment which allows several unsatisfied singles and even married or committed people to experiment more on the sexual side. Call it feminism or the recently promoted women equality, women are not shying away from the idea at all as this is that makes them feel light. Some of the most common dating apps and sites being used by women for having safe, discrete and casual hook up dates include also Badoo, Plenty of Fish and Okcupid. All these websites have proven to be quite the hangout hub for people looking to find love or casual sex in Canada.

And no, it isn’t just about having flings with the locals. Be it native men or women, many of them are also interested in having casual relationships or no strings attached sex with tourists. Online dating platforms like AdultFriendFinder and Tinder have made it very easy for any horny individual to find a like-minded discrete sex partner these days.

Justifying the Act

Well, it comes as no surprise that people just want to have some fun, without having to take care of another emotional burden belonging to someone else. ‘Shut Up and Hook Up’ has been the motto of Canadians lately and as it is going till present, we might just see it overtake the whole idea of having an emotional contact. After all, Fun is always better!

My most important Casual Sex Rules

I love to hook up and let me tell you, it is absolutely great- casual satisfying sex with nothing to worry about or deal with afterwards- isn’t that what every man needs? So I am a staunch believer and follower of the hook up culture which has led me to be a permanent thriving member of websites like C-Date and Victoria Milan. With a tally of over 20 Scandinavian beauties, hook up has been quite a success for me which is why I am sharing some unspoken rules of the casual sex culture that you need to follow. Before I started using C-date in Scandinavia, I got inspired by a guy who used C-date Norge and C-date Sverige. He nicely described his way to become a successful seducer.

These casual sex rules ensure that your booty call is comfortable, safe and both of you are completely discreet with each other and remain unattached till the time you are ‘fuck partners’ or buddies.

1. Keep emotions out of the door

Emotions are unnecessary in casual sex. So whenever you’re going for a casual sex meeting or to hook up with a like-minded person, make sure to keep your emotions out of the whole scenario. After all, no one would like to have an emotional connect when you’re just there for raw sex.

2. Be a gentleman as well as an animal

You’re there to enjoy sex and thus you need to let the animal within you take the charge, to satisfy your deepest darkest desires in bed. But be a gentleman, let the lady decide as well and if she’s taking the charge for herself, let her do it. Sex is good when it satisfies you, but great when it satisfies both of you.

3. Be yourself, always

One thing is for sure, you might never meet this beautiful lady on serious note with an agenda of relationship in mind. SO why try to hide yourself in a cloak and be different from what you actually are? Just be yourself, take it easy and be a straight shooter here- as this is discrete, no one would like a person who is trying too hard to be someone he isn’t.

4. Don’t be or get too personal

You got to understand; these casual sex meetings are discreet and are the way they are because none of you want to know the family background or the past relationships. The agenda is clear- casual sex with nothing to worry or think about. So don’t ask any personal questions and never disclose your personal information!

5. Be creative and experimental

Oh, this is the best part. So this Scandinavian girl isn’t your girlfriend and you don’t really have to think about whether she’ll like it or not as she can take her own stand and let you know. So why not turn and twist things a little bit and try some other positions or role plays for an absolutely steamy sex session?

6. Don’t text or message too much

Well, that’s just because it connects you two for a bond beyond sex and you don’t want that now do you? Keep your hands off the phone and just ask her to be your booty call- simple!

With these rules in mind, you can always enjoy some great casual sexy moments with a like minded girl of your choice!