Ever wondered what keeps lovelorn damsels glued to their beaus? The questions are simple and answers may be simpler depending on the depth one is ready to go for in order to understand the magic of love. Do you possess what it takes to carry out long term relationships with ear wide grins in every selfie? Do you feel obliged to drag a relationship or is it because you can’t change partners (it would require you to get out of your comfort zone). Is online relationship taking its toll on your social life and you’re ambiguous about it being real love or just a fling that extended to years? Being a better person with relationships takes time and efforts to have that same intent gaze and to look into the same direction together. There would be roadblocks and obstacles, but strong relationships build bridges over them and reach out for one another no matter what.
Magic Trick# 1: Let them cast A Spell on You
Out of all the tips you have been searching for on how to make an impact on your partner, let them have an impact on you. Be their fan and the biggest one, let them be open to you and make you fall for them. This is an amazing idea for couples who are either dating virtually or into somehow sensitive relationships- when you tend to focus on the brighter side of your partner, there’s little room left to see their shortcomings- and when you do, it’s easy to accept them. Know them inside out and you’d see where they stand in your heart and mind.
Magic trick #2: Create Magic Together by Introducing Rituals
Building a life together is as amazing as it sounds, but it takes a lot of time. Bringing the spark in your relationship back to life is a great way to improve your relationship with your partner/ spouse.- Be it a date night every Friday or visiting the favorite vacation spot to relive the memories- make it happen and make it a habit. Creativity should never leave the field when it comes to initiating new activities to make them become a ritual in your lives for long.
Magic Trick #3: Communicate, happen what may!
No matter what calamity befalls your relationship, never cease to communicate. The major killer to a relationship, no matter how strong, is lack of communication. There would be times testing your patience and perseverance- go through it with holding one another’s hand and let them know you’re there for them. Instead of worsening fights, give yourself some space and to your partner as well- however, do not let go of communication at all.
Magic Trick #4: The ability to apologize is the best of superpowers!
A sincere apology is a heartfelt one and it definitely does not follow the repetition of hurtful behavior. Being a better lover/ spouse takes a lot of effort in the area of apology more than other relationships. It’s important to know what has hurt your partner and go ahead with a sincere apology in any form. Don’t let your ego spoil the wonderful relationship you share.
Magic Trick #5: Don’t forget the milestones you achieved together
Remember the first kiss? – The first love note? – The first date? Never in your wildest dreams make the mistake of forgetting the first time they blew love on you and you froze into the beautiful being you are today. Recalling the initial period of your relationship (the honeymoon period) helps develop the relationship in a positive manner. Also it helps couples to look at things in a similar direction as they did when planning out the course of their life together- from curtains to pets, everything.
Improve your relationship by availing the package of magic tricks and of course, be cautious, love needs careful handling. However, it is the solution to many of the relationships- so just increase the dose of care and love mixed with respect and empathy to become a better person for your better half.